Aussie-Chinese Girl Reflects on Her Med Practitioner Journey

Was meant to post this 2 days ago but got "kidnapped" (voluntarily) by grandparents for boot camp style master classes on internal medicine and imaging interpretations 😂 (yes we're imminently entering exam period 💀).  Back to this post, I had the amazing opportunity to sit in with an incredible ICU consultant when she was having a family meeting with the pt's husband. I am not at all exaggerating when I say she has set the bar extremely high for what true shared-decision making between the healthcare team and the pt's family can and should look like. I got a real sense that the consultant truly meant it when she said "You know the patient best, certainly much better than me, and I'm asking for your help in determining the best treatment option for your wife moving forward when we take into consideration what she holds most dear in life and what's most important to her in life".  You know you did a good job when the family member / loved one / n...

 Today was the first time I was sat down and given feedback by a member of my gen med team. Previously, all feedback was given on the fly or as part of mini-cex (which varied in usefulness) and it made me feel, "damn, this is really useful feedback I can incorporate into the rest of my MD journey" and DIDN'T bury my self-esteem 6 feet underground (shocking I know 😆💀😥).  General brownie points   centralised feedback delivered by intern → less intimidating, more relatable face-to-face (yes, I'm old-fashioned)  dedicated time during lunch, had time to unpack and explore feedback, including regular check-backs on how feedback is being taken, any concerns I would like to raise etc. secluded area, no one walking around or sitting near to distract and overhear → reduce anxiety and stress asking about how I'm going so far, not to stressed, anything to raise about placement in general etc. Specific feedback done well   turns out sandwich style does work well 😅 → inte...